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Examples from the Bible

Jesus often went out alone by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

Right after Jesus was baptized he was led by the Spirit into the desert to be tempted. (Mt 4:1-11 ) I find it interesting that this is how Jesus began His ministry. Often we would think if someone has a great mission to do then they should get on with it but Jesus knew the importance of having that time with God. And that was not the only time.

- He spent the night in prayer before choosing the disciples (Luke 6:12-13 )

- When He heard John had been beheaded he withdrew to a solitary place (Mt 14:13 ) (where 5000 people went ahead of Him to hear and he fed them all)

- After feeding 5,000 he sent his disciples off and went up on a mountain to pray alone (Mt 14:22-23 )

- The Scripture says directly about Him, "But Jesus often withdrew to lonely places and prayed." (Luke 5:16 )

- And it was alone with His disciples nearby that He prayed in agony in the Garden of Gentlemen just before being betrayed (Mt 26:36-46 )

lenblaides writes on 2001-01-08



I just want to draw your attention to the word ´Gentlemen´
The garden of gentlemen. Is this a make up name or should it be ´Gethsemane

Len Blaides
lenblaides@hotmail.com

futbolmamasita writes on 2001-07-31



At youth camp...I would always go off by myself when it was possible. My good friend Michael, would always come and find me. "Ruthie, why are you always alone?" I would always answer, "I just like to be." Then he would leave. I believe he understood, but I was really listening, praying, or just thinking. Sometimes it is good to be by yourself.

hugapoohlouise writes on 0000-00-00

I love reading about Jesus and the many things that he did. It is such an inspiration to me. It helps me in modeling my life after Him. It also helps me see the things that I have went through are minor in comparison with what Jesus came through for me.

deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

Jesus withdrew to pray........there is no better example of how to pray. The relationship between Father and Jesus was special and personal....just like ours could be if we would withdraw and pray.

D-lite writes on 2002-04-27

Challenges of creating solitude:
Since I first began this course and browsing through its various topics (i.e. solitude), an idea has been germinating in the back of my mind. But it does require a risk and an extra measure of faith in order to accomplish. This past month I have challenged myself to believe God for it and then to take intentional steps toward showing that I will trust God in this.

Speaking as a mom and wife who works full time, finding a place of solitude is difficult. Itís difficult for several reasons; firstly because I enjoy and crave solitude so much, and secondly, because in the past I have had almost no place (physically or time wise) to create the environment. The kids have their own rooms and my husband has his office, but the rest of the house is all ìshared territoryî. I have come to understand that we all individually need a space that is exclusive and private.

Therefore, this weekend our tenants are moving out of our lower suite and so we have decided to trust God to meet our needs in others ways. I am planning to create a place of solitude in a corner room of the suite. Then too we will have a place for our ministry friends and family to come for a stop over when in the area ( 2 Kings 4:10 ).

  • Mt 4:1-11;Luke 6:12-13;Mt 14:13;Mt 14:22-23;Luke 5:16;Mt 26:36-46; - Jesus often went out alone

    • Elijah in the desert - depression by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Elijah had just come down from Mount Carmal. The memory of the fire of the Lord falling from Heaven and burning up his sacrifice, the wood, the stones, the soil and all the water he had poured over it was still fresh in his mind. God had shown Himself as the one true God and all the other prophets were seen as imposters.

    But that did not make the queen very happy since she was shown to be wrong so she swore she would kill him. So Elijah was afraid and fled for his life alone into the desert. He was so discouraged that he even prayed he would die. But God, in His compassion, gave him food and water and sent him 40 days and nights into the heart of the desert. It was there on Mount Horeb that he met God. Not in the mighty wind, or earthquake, or fire but in a gentle whisper. And God told him he is not alone. ( 1 Kings 19 )

    Friend, if you are discouraged and want to give up, go away and be alone with God. There you will be refreshed and hear His gentle whisper.

    restless_poet writes on 2001-03-08



    I am truly amazed that in the darkest of depression, the deepest grief, even in anger toward God... when I get alone with Him, He is ALWAYS there. Even when He knows I´m so much less than what I need to be, and the times I doubt my own sincerity! He does whisper an amazingly strong peace. I can be confused why He´s allowing something, be brokenhearted, be at a standstill spiritually.. but let me get alone with Him, and He meets me there. No wonder the enemy throws such distractions and busy-ness our way! Even five minutes of intimate time with the Lord will restore closeness to Him.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    What an awesome God we serve....even in Elijah¥s turning away Father still loved him and met his needs...Elijah had just witnessed one of the finest miracles of the Bible and just like a human he immediately forgot what a mighty God Father is. He fell into depression and cried out to die because of a mere woman. Yet, God cared for Elijah just as He cares for me....what a comfort to know that God will never forsake me or leave me....even if I desert Him.

    D-lite writes on 2002-05-25

    Proverbs 29:18 tells us that where there is ìno vision, the people perish, but happy is he who keeps the law.î

    For the past few years I have been involved as a facilitator in the Alpha ministry of our church. I find it interesting listening to people share about their questions and struggles with their faith. In listening to the groups, the one reoccurring issue that is very prevalent is the concerns with depression. Most of the people I have heard from are not older people, but are young adults. A year or so ago I had the opportunity to visit someone in the psychiatric department of the hospital and here again my attention was drawn to the same fact. Many who are hospitalized for depression are young people. This causes me to wonder about its source.

    Vision is outward focussed, whereas depression is inward focussed. Vision sees beyond obstacles, to the opportunities. Depression walks into those same obstacles and stumbles on them. Vision finds its source in hope and forgiveness, while depression finds its source in fear, disappointment and anger.

    I realize that I donít begin to understand everything about depression and its torment. But I do know that depression is not good and often it debilitates oneís faith in God, so it must be a tool of the enemy. This was certainly the case with Elijah. He needed strengthening and refreshment from God, not man. Man drains, but God rebuilds. ìHe gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak. Even youths grow tired and weary, and young men stumble and fall; but those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.î (Isa 40:29-31 ).

    thalteman writes on 2003-12-09

    It seems to continually hold true that humans are creatures of habit. Those who believe there is a Father, Son, and Holy Spirit, when in deep trouble, they still cling to the idea that they are not present to help them in a serious situation. Human nature takes over and fear and depression sets in quickly.
    Fear is a tool of the Devil and obviously just as likely the perpetrator of depression.

    I live in the state of California and how often when there is a major accident on tne freeways, everyone slows down to be a looky loo, glad its not them, obeying the speed limits and various traffic laws for a mile or so and then back to their normal routine as nothing nothing happened. How quickly they forget!

    People gamble and know they shouldn´t. People drink and drive and know they shouldn´t. People take chances knowing they shouldn´t and hoping all goes in their favor. People do the same when it comes to God, they practice their religion and forget how to be a Christian.

    I read the story about "The Pilgrims Progress" and it tells of how so many continue to serve mammon instead of God and even the chosen are scared and nervous and make mistakes. But The Good Shepard knows his sheep and they their master and so they are continually brought back to the straight and narrow path that leads to the Kingdom of Heaven, thus proving over and over that our heavenly Father cares, always.

    2 Peter 2

    17These men are springs without water and mists driven by a storm. Blackest darkness is reserved for them. 18For they mouth empty, boastful words and, by appealing to the lustful desires of sinful human nature, they entice people who are just escaping from those who live in error. 19They promise them freedom, while they themselves are slaves of depravity--for a man is a slave to whatever has mastered him.

    Exodus 20:20
    Moses said to the people, "Do not be afraid. God has come to test you, so that the fear of God will be with you to keep you from sinning."
    (Whole Chapter: Exodus 20 In context: Exodus 20:19-21 )

    1 Samuel 17:24
    When the Israelites saw the man, they all ran from him in great fear.
    (Whole Chapter: 1 Samuel 17 In context: 1 Samuel 17:23-25 )

    Proverbs 12:25
    Anxiety in the heart of man causes depression, But a good word makes it glad.
    (Whole Chapter: Proverbs 12 In context: Proverbs 12:24-26 )

    sue p writes on 2005-11-14

    I really think that the devil works to keep us very busy in this world. We work long hours, we drive children to multiple events etc etc. For if the devil can keep us busy we may miss the "whisper from the Lord".
    Maybe this is why our children are getting depressed also. We sign them up for every school and after school activity we can find, all under the guise of stimulating them. The Lord is more stimulation than any one individual needs.

    sue p writes on 2005-11-14

    I really think that the devil works to keep us very busy in this world. We work long hours, we drive children to multiple events etc etc. For if the devil can keep us busy we may miss the "whisper from the Lord".
    Maybe this is why our children are getting depressed also. We sign them up for every school and after school activity we can find, all under the guise of stimulating them. The Lord is more stimulation than any one individual needs.

  • 1 Kings 19; - Elijah in the desert - depression

    • Moses and David - preparation by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    The human way of doing things seems to be just to go out there and get it done. God´s way seems to be different. Sure there is a time when things are "go out there and get it done" but there are also the times of waiting, of stillness, of silence and being alone with God.

    Take Moses for example. He was called by God from before birth to deliver God´s people from bondage in Egypt. When he was 40 it appears he thought he was ready and tried to take matters in his own hands and killed a man. Then he fled. For another 40 years he spent in the desert. What did he do there? I´m not sure, but he came back a different person and God used Him. (Exodus 2 )

    Then there is David the shepherd of the flock who was anointed with oil to shepherd God´s people as the King and then went on to keep shepherding the flock, playing harp for the King, and running for his life before he finally became king. ( 1 Samuel 16 )

    The point is: Sometimes things don´t go as we would have planned because God wants to take us through His school of training first. This school is often full of hard experiences, aloneness and waiting.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    I had to really mull this one over...for you see things don¥t ever go as WE would have planned if we are following GOD¥S plan.

    userlw80 writes on 2002-07-02

    I liked all of the articles on solitude. I have found out that thats the best time that I have with God, when I listen to what he has to tell me, when he directs me in the way that he wants me to go. Spending time with God is the best time.

    sue p writes on 2005-11-14

    Moses, David and Abraham are all heroes of mine. They learned to listen to God and realize all things will be on God´s timeline not theirs.
    I say they are heroes because they heard God´s plans but waited for them to come to fruitation. I personally want to be a full time missionary, but God has not found it the right time to send me yet. I struggle with the waiting. I could just go off and sign up but it would not be right for my family. My family is not ready. For a long time I was angry at them for not letting me go but found that if God had wanted me to go I would be there. The waiting is a learning period for me. Just pray for me for I get tempted to go without family thus God approval. I get angry which is impeding God´s Words to me.
    Thanks,
    Sue P

  • Exodus 2;1 Samuel 16; - Moses and David - preparation

    • Solitude - Example 3 From the Bible by lenblaides, 2001-01-25

    Solitude Example 3 From the Bible.

    Acts 13: 6-12 speaks of a certain sorcerer, a false prophet, a jew, whose name was Bar-jesus.
    Like Saul, he tried to obstrust the spreading of the Gospel of Jesus Christ.
    Elymas, the sorcerer withstood Paul and Barnabas and tried to turn Sergius Paulus, a prudent man away from the faith. Paul did to Elymas, the sorcerer, what the light of Christ did to him.
    Acts 13:11 Paul said,.. " And now, behold, the hand of the Lord is upon thee, and thou shalt be blind, not seeing the sun for a season. And immediately there fell on him a mist and a darkness; and he went about seeking some to lead him by the hand.
    This man was in solitude; in the darkness of his own corruption.
    Unlike Paul, we hear no more of this man. One thing for certain is that he did receive his sight again as Paul predicted (Acts 13:11 )
    Whether he became a Christian as Paul did,..... no one knows
    But I am sure we will find out when the Lord comes again.
    The Lord can talk to us better when we are in solitude.

    Hosea 2:14 the Lord said, "Therefore,
    behold, I will allure her(his people), and bring her intop the wilderness, and speak comfortably unto her."

    Solitude is a good word and a good place.

    Len Blaides

    mnolfn writes on 0000-00-00

    Well, you need not be unsaved for the Lord to put you in solitude. I have been brought to that point, in sickness. I thought I would better run my life than Him. But God who is rich in mercy...
    Oh, how He loves you and me.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Solitude-A place of Decision

    Solitude seems to me to be a place deep within where we come face to face with God. We all have been to that place of "solitude" where we have either responded "yes, Lord" or "not now". Adam¥s place of "solitude" came when he had to either obey God or follow Eve. Noah¥s place of "solitude" was in the moments before he began calling his sons to work. Samson¥s sightless solitude brought about a decision of rededication. Daniel¥s night of "solitude" brought with it an unequaled decision of commitment. Each and every person mentioned in the Bible had that moment of "solitude" with God. Each and every person born has had the same moment of "solitude".

    Whither shall I go from thy spirit? or whither shall I flee from thy presence? If I ascend up into heaven¥ thou art there: if I make my bed in hell, behold, thou art there. Psalm 139:7,8

  • Acts 13:11; - Solitude - Example 3 From the Bible

    • Solitude - Example 2 from the Bible by lenblaides, 2001-01-25

    Another example of solitude may be found in Acts 9 : 3-9.
    Saul, at the peak of his career, was doing all that he could to destroy the Christians who followed ´The Way´.
    As he journeyed to Damascus, he had an encounter with he Lord Jesus and was thrown from his horse to the ground from where he heard the voice of the Lord, saying......" Saul, Saul, why persecutest thou me?´

    When Saul got up from the ground, he was blind and remained without sight for three days; even without eating.Saul was in solitude, in a world that had no light. He was in a place where all he could do was to ponder on the dramatic experience he had with the Lord himself. In his solitude he could think of the resources he had; the languages he knew and the wealth he must have had;... only to consider them ´dung´ and to conclude that the kingdom of God is far more profitable.(Philippians 3:8)

    He would also spend time in solitude in the deserts of Arabia preparing himself for the work of the kingdom of God.(Galatians 1:17)

    Saul was then known as the Apostle Paul.

    Len Blaides

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    The Apostle Paul continued in this example of preparation through solitude as given by Our Lord Jesus....in Acts 20:23 Paul sent his companions along the shore by sea while he chose to go alone "by foot". How I long for the "solitude" of God.

  • Acts 9; - Solitude - Example 2 from the Bible

    • Solitude - Examples from the Bible by lenblaides, 2001-01-25

    The word Solitude literally means:
    Seclusion, or a deserted or lonely place.
    I bring today three examples of solitude that fit these descriptions.

    1) Luke 3:2 says, ............
    the word of God came unto John the son of Zacharias in the wilderness.
    John the Baptist was in the wilderness preparing for his ministry which was prophesized beforehand by the Prophet Malachi.
    Malachi 3:1 says, "Behold, I will send my messenger, and he shall prepare the way before me: and the Lord, whom ye seek, shall suddenly come to his temple, even the messenger of the covenant, whom ye delight in: behold, he shall come, saith the Lord of hosts."

    John the Baptist fulfilled that prophesy, and it was confirmed by Jesus when he said......" For this is he, of whom it is written, ´Behold, I will send my messenger before thy face, which shall prepare thy way before thee.´(Matthew 11:10)

    It is also believed that the prophesy in Malachi 4:5 was also fulfilled by John the Baptist. It talks about sending Elijah before the great and dreadful day of the Lord.
    In Matthew 11:13-14 Jesus said ....
    "For all the Prophets and the law prophesied until John. And if ye will receive it, this is Elias, which was for to come."
    One may say that John the Baptist was in double solitude....
    First, in the time of Elijah and then as himself preparing the way for the Lord Jesus Christ.

    Len Blaides

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    How tough is it in America to find a quiet spot? According to nature recorder Gordon Hempton:

    The hum of power lines can be heard upward of two miles.

    A chain saw cuts the quiet for more than five miles.

    Road noise can travel eight to ten miles.

    A major airport can cast a "noise shadow" longer than fifty miles.

  • Luke 3:2;Malachi 4:5;Matthew 11:13-14; - Solitude - Examples from the Bible

    • Having a spiritual retreat

    In times of transition, discouragement, planning, hunger. by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    There is an old practice called the spiritual retreat when we step back from our daily routine and set aside a few days to be with God. In short, it is like a spiritual holiday.

    I often take one every time I make a major transition in life. For instance, when I came home from a year of serving in Russia I went off to the northernmost part of Vancouver Island to Cape Scott Park. There I strapped on my backpack and hiked in 8 hours to the ocean. Then I sat there alone with God and wrote in my journal my prayers to God. This was a major transitioning point from my life in Russia to my life in Canada again.

    Here are some examples of when to take a spiritual retreat

    - Transitioning - I mentioned this above

    - Discouragement - Then are going to be times of great darkness in life and it is important to take some time to work through the pain and to find God in the midst of it all.

    - Planning - I would suggest that once or twice a year a person should go away in order to refocus on life. That is to evaluate what he or she is doing and then seek God´s will for the near and distant future.

    - Hunger - There are times when the spiritual life becomes dry and it seems to be stuck in a rut. Try to slip away from the routine and be with God for the sole purpose of having your hunger for God grow once again.

    peacehaven_2000 writes on 2002-03-26

    I think that it is very important to seek God in times of transition, discouragement, planning, hunger, and for inner peace. Jesus often went away by Himself to pray and be close to the Father.

    Psalms 46:10 says "be still and know that I am God". This is good advise, but sometimes the hustle and bustle of daily life can be overwhelming and well, sometimes we just need to get away just to clear our heads. Some people go on vacations but come back in the same condition that they left in or maybe worse off. I like to go out to the mountains or the forest or even the desert and behold the beauty that God has created. No sounds of the city, the traffic, and the distractions of our daily lives. Then we can seek His face and find inner peace through meditation and prayer. If we are still, we will hear the soft inner voice and know That He is God.

    Tiffany writes on 2002-07-01

    About a month ago, I fasted from the internet. I was kinda one of those people who was ALWAYS online. And it took time away from my Father. So, after praying one night, I felt led to fast from the internet for a little bit. So during that time, all the time I used to use for the internet, I then used for God, reading Christian books, worshiping Him, and reading the bible. It was cool, because it gave me peace & happiness. I found for the first time I could achieve that feeling alone. Without a whole group. :)

    userlw80 writes on 2002-07-02

    Taking a spiritual day or weekend to just stay with God always works for me. I have many friends who go on spiritual retreats to renew themselves but I just take time to get away and be with God, whether it¥s at home or when I talk about it when I make responses to these articles.
    When I read the articles and think about God¥s goodness and being able to share it with the people on this website is a spiritual retreat for me.

    Miles Tucker writes on 2003-11-12

    This is a great lesson because I know it works. When I was focused on traveling to another state to go to a technical school I prayed and spent a week by myself before the trip to focus on asking and listening for guidance and help through the transition of going to a new place with out having any help or contacts before hand. I showed up a week before the school started because I had money issues and A tight budget. I had to find a place to live and a job in that amount of time. Well it didn´t bother me because of the patiance God taught me during the week of solitude. The first night I arrived and stayed in a hotel. That very night a young man knocked on my hotel room door and asked if I needed a place to live/rent!! I didn´t even look for a house to rent, it came to me!! I could just see God saying here you go. So I learned a valuable lesson. If won´t have spent that time alone with God away from the destractions of moving and relocating I would have been stressed and who knows what might have happned. I belive by going into solitude it shows God that you really want to listen to what he is trying to say. (Exedus 18:18)

    Have it at conferences, camps, lakes, mountains, churches, m by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    There are all sorts of places you can have a retreat. Here are some suggestions

    - Look into going to a conference or revival meetings

    - Take a one week course from a Bible school or seminary

    - Go to a Bible camp either as a helper or a camper

    - Take off to some lake or mountain and spend some time roughing it

    - Spend a day at the Church

    - Many monasteries allow people to stay for a few days on retreats.

    - Book a trip to the Holy Land

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Go to your computer room, shut the door and take a free online discipleship course.

    D-lite writes on 2002-11-10

    Spiritual Retreat

    This past spring my husband and I had a weekend away where we met a friend who invited us to consider becoming involved as a host couple for weekend retreats at a nearby Christian camp & conference centre. As we looked at our calendars we discovered that later fall would be the earliest opportunity we would have to commit to our first weekend. So now in just 3 weeks we will be able to take advantage of this "spiritual retreat" while we serve as hosts at the same time. We¥ve been to the location many times, but now we have an added dimension to the experience. Our prayer is that God will refresh us, renew our passion and continue to give us direction in our journey with Him, while at the same time we make ourselves available to be a blessing to others.

    Pastor Rich writes on 2003-04-01

    I used to be on the Board of Directors at a Christian camp. I can¥t count the number of times I have been invited to take part in retreats and conferences.

    What a quiet time, in the middle of the woods, to be with God. Just the two of us; sometimes on my knees praying, weeping, and just talking to Him.

    Pastor Rich

    SueG writes on 2006-05-17

    I find when I go camping with no distractions, like tv, computer, work, etc. I just take a deep breath and let nature work.

    moj8668 writes on 2006-11-29

    I love the idea! I´m sold! Sign me up! But one thing first - does anyone have any suggestions for a working mother of four who has limited time and resources for a retreat? My husband would love to help provide such an experience but every suggestion I have ever seen involves leaving home (an absolute must with four children who will inevitably need me the minute I try to get a few minutes of quiet) and spending money to go somewhere else (a precious and somewhat rare resource in a pastor´s family). Any ideas? Please?!

    Spend time doing nothing by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Try to resist the temptation to have to be doing something. When you prepare it for don´t double book yourself to have to go and visit people or speak somewhere. Try to keep your schedule open and relaxing. When you leave - leave your work at home.

    futbolmamasita writes on 2001-07-31



    Sometimes when I am sitting by myself, in my room. I think, "I should be outside listening." So I would go out and sit on our swingset. I would listen for God talking to me or just listening to his creation.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Doing nothing with God will turn into SOMETHING AWESOME!

    When I invite God along on my day,
    With no plans in the way,
    The world becomes an adventure in love,
    Guided by God above.

    The people I see do not bother me,
    I see them diff¥rently.
    God reminds me that I was once like them,
    I was lost without Him.

    I listen real close as He lovingly,
    Describes each one to me.
    He doesn¥t condemn and He does not blame,
    He loves them all the same.

    He guides my steps to a child that is lost,
    A soul terribly tossed.
    I have no big plans to get in the way,
    God tells me what to say!

    When I invite God along on my day,
    With no plans in the way.
    The world becomes an endless avenue,
    For sharing His "Good News"!

    Deecee4jaycee

    Simply enjoy the freedom of prayer and Bible study by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Try not to push yourself too far spiritually. Indeed you should stretch yourself and try to do more prayer and Bible reading than normal but don´t do it to the point where you hate it. Just casually pray and casually read through the Bible for the shear joy of doing it.

    hugapoohlouise writes on 0000-00-00

    In the busy world that we live in today. Most people take for granted the time that they spend with God. I schedule on my calendar each day and evening a prayer and meditation time with God and His Word. Then once a month I schedule a whole day where I spend talking, seeking, praying and praising God. I usually do this alone but I have had a few requests from people in my church to include them. So I am thinking of starting a day retreat at our church for the ones who wish to do this. I thank God for the time I spend with Him, and I thank Him for my desire to want to spend time with him.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    I like the idea of a day retreat. It sounds very inviting and refreshing. If you take the time to go to the church for the retreat then you are more apt to see it through than when you try it at home and the things of the world interrupt. What a wonderful ministry.

    Reflect back on life by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    This would be a great time to look back on life and to re-evaluate if you are really doing what God would have you do. It is quite easy to just fall into a routine and miss the opportunities God has for you. You will likely see things in a new light and God will begin to show you ways you can make a difference when you get back

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Going to work is a routine that we really fall into, we just go there and never really think about the people that we see daily...there is a wonderful old song...People Need The Lord....which says, "Every day they pass me by, I can see it in their eyes, empty people filled with care, headed who knows where. Laughter hides their silent cries, only Jesus cares!" We should not let them pass by unnoticed and untold.

    Allow a burden for the future to grow by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    As the retreat goes on a burden might grow within you. You will be impressed by something and begin to have an urge to do something for God. Think about that. Take time just to sit and wonder what it would be like if you... Let God throw in some ideas and see what comes out.

    Lee James writes on 2001-05-27



    We finaly got around to it. The point is we get so busy praying for what we want or guidance or whatever that we forget to stop and listen for the answer. A prayer is not a monolog. I talk to God and then listen to see what he has to say. Don´t forget to be a good listener, too.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    And in that wonderful place of solitude with God may we determine to follow through.....

    Simplicity

    Should be in a category of it´s own by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    I was gong to make simplicity a category of its own because it does not completely fit under solitude but since I did not have enough content I will leave it here for now.

    Simplicity has to do with living a simple life - or living without all the extras. It could also be classified as self-denial, abstinence, or just doing without.

    The goal of it is to set our focus on God instead of being caught up in materialism. I would tend to disagree with the extreme asceticism of some monks who would whip their bodies, starve themselves for long periods of time, expose themselves to extreme cold and other such extreme practices. Like always, I prefer to balance one discipline with another. The balance to simplicity is celebration (or thankfulness) and the two work hand in hand. Celebration is the discipline of enjoying all that God has given us. They work together because simplicity makes us thankful for what we have and so we celebrate. Celebration helps us remember that everything good comes from God and we can rejoice in being able to eat, and be warm, and have some comfort which prevents extreme asceticism.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    There should be much to say about simplicity, a principal taught by Christ who owned nothing that could encumber His ministry. As He called each of His disciples he admonished them to "Follow" and to do so now! None went home to get a bag...yes, our world is diffrent now and people may not just walk and live where the mood hits but, the encumberances are much the same....extravangant homes, closets full of clothes, several cars, exotic pets, electronic devices, 60 hour work weeks to pay for it all.....what a mess!

    D-lite writes on 2002-05-26

    Perhaps ìsimplicityî is more ìcomplexî than it appears. Does this topic take us back to the origin and motivation for our desire? (Matt 6:20-24 ) ìÖFor where your treasure is, there your heart will be alsoÖ"No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve both God and Money.î

    It would seem that simplicity has more to do with our attitude, than our possessions. Self-denial is attainable in the midst of plenty if the goal is ìto set our focus on Godî. Although one may have access to plenty, one does not need to be materialistic. If the goal is ìto set our focus on Godî, the question then becomes, ìHow does God want me to use these provisions to further His kingdom work through me?î He obviously wants to use me for this purpose; else, He would not have given me these resources. If we believe that everything we have comes from the hand of God, then it makes no difference whom or what God uses as a ìcourierî to deliver His provisions to us. It becomes a question of stewardship, not ownership. The ìearningsî from a job become a gift of grace; earnings from investments become a gift of grace, everything we get becomes a gift of grace, always to be used to further the Kingdom. It becomes an issue of grace and not works.

    ìEvery good and perfect gift is from above, coming down from the Father of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows.î (James 1:17 ). I pray that my focus would be on the Giver of every good and perfect gift, and that I could enjoy and celebrate His graciousness by extending it to others who need to experience His grace.

    Fasting by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Fasting is perhaps the most common of all the practices of simplicity. It is when we go without food in order to concentrate on the Lord more. Jesus said, "And when you fast" (Mt 6:16 ) which implies that we will indeed be fasting. And the context there is to fast with right motives - that is to fast secretly before God and not so one can just be seen by others and be regarded as spiritual.

    There are all sorts of fasts. One can fast from all food as Jesus did in the desert for 40 days (Mt 4:2 ). One can also fast from special food such as meat and wine as Daniel did (Dan 10:3). Since I have a hard time keeping my weight up and cannot go much more than a day without food this is the kind I lean to for extended fasts (I typically just eat rice, bread, water and a few items for nutrition)

    Fasting is done for many reasons in the Bible,

    - mourning ( 2 Sam 1:11-12)

    - intercession - asking God for help (Esther 4:16 )

    - discerning God´s will and sending people out for ministry (Acts 13:3 Acts 14:23 )

    Fasting has many practical applications

    - It frees up time to pray

    - It is a physical reminder to pray

    - It puts us in a mindset of prayer

    - It makes us more grateful for what God has given us

    - It shows us life is more than just food (Mt 4:4 )

    SpiritualAdrenaline writes on 2001-06-26



    A fast doesn´t have to involve food. We can fast from anything that distracts us from our God. 1 Corinthians 7:5 even describes fasting between husband and wife; Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer.
    We can even fast from the computer if needed.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    When you fast you are saying to God that "I have no other Gods before you." This thing (whatever it may be) will not be my God, you will Father."
    And in that concept I fully agree with the response that you can fast from many things, not just food. I am gettng this funny tickle in my brain about T.V.,............hmmmmmm

    Jen C. writes on 2002-05-25

    Other purposes of fasting according to a teaching by Dr. Michael Youssef.

    1) To receive power from the Holy Spirit
    2) Protection
    3) Deliverance/Breaking addictions (yokes)
    4) To show surrender/submission to the Lord

    seekker writes on 2003-03-17

    I have found that fasting enables me to hear God more clearly. During the process of denying my body food, my spirit seems to become stronger and more sensitive and aware of spiritual things, enabling me to listen and hear more clearly.

    For me, this usually occurs around the third day or so of the fast, when the need/desire for food lessens.

    In addition, I have discovered that when I¥m going through a particularly prolonged or difficult time or decision making process, if I dedicate one 24 hr period a week to a mini-retreat with fasting, it can enhance my prayer time. Since it is my custom to spend my prayer time first thing in the morning, I will begin my fast after lunch on one day. Spend the rest of the evening in prayer and reflection in preparation for the next morning. Then I will get up and spend several hours in communion with my Father, and I find I am able to listen with less distraction and hear Him more clearly ... oftentimes this communion / prayer time can last through the entire morning. After this period of time, I break the fast with a light meal and proceed with my regular weekly routine.

    Angelo writes on 2003-03-29

    I¥ve found fasting is an extremly benificial thing to do. Not only does it show that you are willing to give something up for God. But it also gives you extra time to spend in prayer and amazingly enough since our body isn´t waisting all that energy on digesting food it gives you a greater clarity of mind which is a really great thing to have when you seeking God for answers on a particualr thing.

    ioweHim writes on 2003-05-21

    There´s nothing like fasting to show your submission to God. I have a hard time putting this into words. At first, I didn´t understand why God wanted this, but after a day of fasting everything seems to become clear. And by the third day, I feel so focused on God. There´s just nothing like it to bring you closer to God.

    JesusLovesUS writes on 2005-09-22

    Yes there are many other ways of fasting, alot of people chose to go without food or go without tv etc i for one cannot go without food for over half of a day, and tv i never watch anymore i feel its a great distraction to my studying. When im studying i cant have no music on its got to be silent or i cant concerntrate and i do this for long periods of times a day and i feel it makes my studying alot more advanced.

  • Mt 6:16;Mt 4:2;Esther 4:16;Acts 13:3;Acts 14:23;Mt 4:4; - Fasting

    • Other kinds of fasting by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Of course food is not the only thing we can fast from. We can also take a fast from watching television, or playing computer games, or surfing the Internet. For those of us who are married you can fast from having sexual intercourse for the purpose of prayer for a time and by mutual consent ( 1 Cor 7:5)

    Living without in order to give by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    One of my greatest temptations is to buy a new computer. It seems that whenever I get a new one they always seem to make one that is better, so I´m always wanting to get a new one. I´ve been looking at a 500mHZ computer for some time now to replace my 200 but I keep holding back. I ask myself, "Why do you really need it? How will it make the ministry better?" Sure, I could get a bit more done faster and I might end up getting it so I can do the video-editing for the seminar and CD but right now I do not really need it.

    The Church on the other hand just had one of the computers die on them and they are really in need of a newer computer. Now I could just give them this old one and buy myself a new one but why not buy them a new one and keep the old one?

    It´s something I´m tossing about in my head and I only tell you because it might be helpful for you. The point however, is why bother buying things we don´t need when we could use that money to help those who are in need.

    (Acts 2:42-47)

    SpiritualAdrenaline writes on 2001-06-26



    When I give away clothes to organizations that use it to help the needy, I always give them my old clothes. I have never gone out and bought new ones to give away.

    If you buy a new computer you can give the old one to the Church. Assuming the one you use now meets the needs of the church that is.

    futbolmamasita writes on 2001-07-31



    The other day, my friend hurt me. We were going to go out and she didn´t call or anything, just left me hanging. So I went to wal-mart and spent all of my money that I had made from my job. I made sure I used all of it. Well, in the end, I only bought nothing that I needed. I only did it because I was very mad at her. I then realized that I had saved nothing for my tithe. So I plan on saving the right amount...puls more to give to God´s church. Remember to keep your temper under control!

    tammyingham writes on 0000-00-00

    To live a simple life is what makes me humble.
    If I don¥t need it I won¥t buy it. I think the money could be better used like buying food for the homeless or buying blankets when its cold out for people. I belive that is what Jesus would¥ve wanted us to do with the extra cash instead of buying tvs,games etc

    ghoffmanpdx writes on 0000-00-00

    Living a simple life... it¥s hard to believe, my being in technology and all, but I have to agree. After losing a job that kept me from God and my family for so long, and now having one that pays far less, I can no longer afford a lot of the things I used to. But, I have time for my family and, more importantly, I have time for God and can see a REAL direction in my life.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    I do not mean to sound preachy but, I pondered this for a couple of days....it seems to me that if we buy something better for ourselves with the justification that we are going to give the old away, we are not giving Firstfruits. I am just as guilty of this as the next person...what would be so wrong in buying new clothes to give away especially if the old clothes still fit? I think that Chris you knew this when you were struggling...maybe God was laying it on your heart to povide His church with a NEW computer because you were in a position to obtain the money. This is a lesson I fail at miserably...but, thanks for the good ponder.

    Pastor Rich writes on 2003-04-01

    A thought just came to mind, something I have mentioned several times to others. Put God first, then others, then yourself.

    Giving that computer to the church is something God told you to do (putting Him first), then by doing so you are helping others. Some might say that if I put God first, then serve and help others, what will I have? You will have what God shares with you, after all, isn¥t it all His to begin with?

    Pastor Rich

    flutegal writes on 2003-12-15

    Funny that this should come up now...God has recently put it in my heart to raise money for our church youth group. I am a youth leader, and the vision of the youth pastor is one that God has wrapped my heart in. I can´t really express how I feel, but I know that I need to obey what God has placed in my heart.

    noellers writes on 2005-02-04

    I heard on the radio about an ´open hand´ ideal that suggests we should live with an open hand. If God has given you something, it is meant to be given somewhere else. For instance, if you got some extra money instead of spending it on yourself, give it to someone in need. It´s a great illistration, but it is sometimes hard to follow. That´s when you can turn to God and say: "God, I know this gift has been given to me by You, please direct me as to how best you want me to use it to give to others."

    Dressing not to the fad but in appropriateness by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Along the same lines as above, why bother buying the latest fad of clothes? Why not just buy some clothes that look good and are appropriate for the task we need them for? Then just let them wear out until they have to be replaced?

    hugapoohlouise writes on 0000-00-00

    When I first got saved I struggled with this. I use to work a job where I had to dress very professionally. Now I am a stay at home mom. And I belong to a Holiness, Pentecostal Church. The Lord has convicted me about my clothes. At first I rebelled. I still wanted to wear my shorts and short sleeves, makeup and jewelry. Even though God was showing me that I did not need these things. Finally when I was able to submit myself wholly to him, it got easier and now I want to dress as God¥s example is for women. I take pleasure in dressing the way I do now because I know it brings glory to God.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Along the lines of simplicity this would be the perfect answer...just buy clothes and wear them out. Along the lines of reaching people for Christ unfortunately the world judges people by their looks....I am not certain that I would take seriously a guy in a Nehru jacket just because it was still good after 30 years. We are called to bring the Light of Jesus to a lost world and unfortunately sometimes that means we must pay attention to our appearance.

    Angelo writes on 2003-03-29

    I dont completly agree with you on this issue. I think that its important for us as Christians to want to look our best for God. And I don´t believe that God would want us walking around in clothes that are falling apart and having nothing that is good or nice or anything like that. I also don´t think there is any problem with dressing in style if you buy clothes that are quality and are going to last you for a long time.

    Sure I understand where there is a point where if you´re buying new clothes every other week because fads are changing well then that´s probably not what God is desiring for your life but I don´t think God minds us dressing in style if we buy clothes that are gonna last and that are modest (and I mean modesty for both males and females). And its highly possible to buy cheaper good quality clothes that suit the fashions and trends of today that last longer than brands. So it´s a bit of a give and take on both things there. Just because we´re Christians doesn´t mean we can´t dress in the style of today as long as we dont go crazy over it.

    Comes down to, being content in God by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    Ultimately it all comes down to where we get our value from. For some, we are so busy trying to get accepted by our peers or find acceptance in what we own that we have gone off target. For others, they have learned the secret that money does not truly satisfy because one can never have enough and only in God is true contentment found.

    I appreciate the passage in Scripture that says, "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs." ( 1 Timothy 6:6-10 )

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Content with God really jumps at you....content=happy enough with what one has or is; not desiring something more or different; satisfied----willing----pleased. Can you imagine being happy with what one is or has in God? Can you imagine being in a place where you desire nothing more or different than God? Where you are satisfied by God and God alone; willing to be God¥s and God¥s alone; pleased with being God¥s. I could say that I am all that now but, I know that is not true, I have a long way to journey to reach these goals.

    userlw80 writes on 2002-07-02

    Being content in God being the best person I can be, trying to do as God would want me to, denying myself to the things that would take me away from walking in the spirit. Being an example of a Godly woman because I may be the only Bible that a person sees. Living in the world and not participating in the sinful things of the world for example (doing Bible studies on the computer instead of being in porno chatrooms). Doing useful things, holy things regardless of what others may think.

  • 1 Timothy 6:6-10; - Comes down to, being content in God

    • Stillness and Silence

    Be still by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    In this busy, fast-paced super highway called life we seem to have lost the practice of stillness and silence. It seems that we always have to keep moving. In fact, many feel guilty when they relax.

    But God calls us to take some time off and just to sit there. And what are we supposed to do? Nothing really. Just sit back and know that God is God. Once we gain a grasp on that everything else will follow. You might feel a need to get down on your knees, or you might cry out for the nations, or you will begin to sing, or cry, or go out to share the Word, or just sit there.

    So begin right now, take a moment and just be still - know that God is God - you´ll know what to do from there.

    Arnet Hales writes on 2001-05-25



    Someone once said that the reason we do not like to be silent is that we do not like the company silence forces us into. Silence requires that we live with ourselves and if we have not learned to like ourselves then this is a difficult task indeed. Now when I consider myself, there is not really much to like. I am arogant, thoughtless, ignorant, selfish, conceded, self centered; and yet, God, who created me for his pleasure, gave himself for me, and fills me with his Spirit, sees me otherwise. He sees me through Jesus. It is not that the old me does not exist, it is that when God looks down to me he sees me through the filter of the Blood of the Lamb. If God so loved Arnet that he gave his only begotton Son, that if Arnet should believe on him he would not perish, but have every lasting life,it seems a great tragedy that I should not like myself. Silence is much easier to acept when we see ourselves as God the Father sees us. We are forgiven, we are cleansed, we are filled with Him. This is the good news. Now all of his admonishment to be still and know, make sense.

    thx

    Arnet

    Chris Priebe writes on 2001-05-31



    Sorry I can´t quote you verse but I know what God puts in my heart. I can find solitude but there is never stillness or silence. I can´t sing but this morning I woke up with a song about our "Awsome God" in my ears. I take my bible out on my deck and even without traffic the birds sing and the wind blows. In the house there are other natural sounds. I love it because God put life in me and that life sings. I can be alone with God and my thoughts but the Lord always has His music playing in the background.

    - Lee James

    futbolmamasita writes on 2001-07-31



    About three weeks ago, I went to youth camp. I had decided that I would no longer be a singer for God, but a writer and youth person. Well, when I came back, we were driving to work and the song, "I could sing of your love forever" came on. Then on the way home it was on again. Then later that night I was listening to it on my computer. Well, that night before I fell asleep, it came on the radio again. So I prayed about it and sat there and listened to nothing. God told me through that song, to continue to sing for him, plus do the other things he called me to do.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    I think that the real message here is to withdraw from your worldly cares and FOCUS on God....when we focus on God all things fall into place...silence is an unattainable reality for even in "silence" there are sounds....the beating of ones heart, the sounds of breathing, the whisper of wind....but, as I FOCUS and think about God the world grows smaller, sounds seem to disappear, His presence grows nearer and I am amazed.

    userlw80 writes on 2002-07-02

    I like being still and listening to God especially when the weather is nice and I take a walk in the grass and I look at the birds and I thank God for another day. I love being still and spending time with God.

    jive writes on 2002-12-19

    I know for me, the time I spend alone with the Lord has a dramatic impact on my entire day. As the father of three children, one of which I home school, the other two are under the age of three, My quite time brings peace, sets my focus and allows me to keep my sanity. Did I mention I also babysit another two children everday, after they get out of school. Drawing close to Jesus is the only place I find rest. It actually took me quite some time, but I have found that discipling myself to start the day off on my face before the Lord is the key to getting through the day and still having hair on my head.

    carman2005 writes on 2005-02-19

    It seems like in that time when I am silent and waiting for God to answer is the time when your faith comes in. Satan always tries to plant things in your mind to distract your thinking and begin to cause you to doubt your faith. I just keep remember that God has already covered me with His blood and I am in His Mighty right hand and I am safe.

    My story by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    There was a time in Russia when I was working so hard, so desperately. The time is so short, the ministry is so great, the burden so heavy. I would wake up in the morning, quickly make breakfast, rush through my devotions, fire through team meeting, blast over to the market, nibble on lunch as I jump onto the trolly. Then I would lead a Bible Study, finish it, run off to the next ministry for the King Almighty, crawl back to my apartment, leaf through the Bible, say a short prayer and crash for another night. Then God told me something. "Be still"

    "Be still! What do you mean be still? I´m serving you."

    "Be still..."

    "But there is so much to do?"

    "Be still..."

    "But there is so much to THINK about, to plan, to organize, to solve."

    "Be still. Be still and KNOW that I am God."

    So I sat there in the park and was still. I began to notice some things I did not have time to see before. God made that tree. That branch, twig, leaf, so beautiful and complex. What a great God I serve? What a wonderful cloud? So pure, so lofty, so excellent. God made that cloud, what a great God I worship. What a great person? So kind, so giving, so admirable. God made that person. What a great God I love!

    I forgot my problems, my worries, my schedule, I was just sitting there, being, resting, discovering God as if it was for the first time and loving Him incredibly. It was not even always thoughts, it was also just sitting there knowing He is real, He is present, He cares.

    It is no wonder God says, "Be still, and know that I am God" Psalm 46:10. What makes it even more interesting is the context it falls within for it the chapter is all about how even though mountains fall into the sea and the waters roar and foam God is our refuge and strength so I need not fear.

    There is a story in the Bible where the Israelites where not still within them. It was when the Egyptian army was coming after them and they thought they were all going to die. Imagine the fear that rose within their hearts. But Moses said, "The LORD will fight for you; you need only to be still." And God parted the sea.

    So then it comes back to us. Sometimes we get all worried and the waters of our soul get so muddled that we cannot see things clearly. Be still. Take the time and be quiet before God and you will see things in a new way. Then God shall open the sea before you.

    faith writes on 2001-07-04



    I´ve often doubted myself when I pray. I KNOW with everything in my heart and soul that God has spoken to me but my mind doubts it. When I read this, I was amazed and glad to know that he does speak to people.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    Father wants to be real to us....and therefore He will stop us fom our own busy-ness. When running about, to and fro, He becomes something we know about but, not someone real. How many times have we heard someone recite John 3:16 ? It becomes rote simply due to the fact that it is usually our first memory verse...I can say it without taking a breath.....but, when I slow down, join with Father and actually see what He has to say it becomes REAL! For God (Father) so loved the world (me) that He gave His only begotten Son (Jesus) that whosoever (me) believeth in Him (Jesus) should not perish but have everlasting life. For God (Creator of all) so loved the world (all humans) that He gave (sacrificed on the Cross) His only begotten (born of the virgin Mary) Son (Jesus, fully human-fully God) that whosoever (anyone, whether I like them or not) believeth in Him (Jesus) should not perish (spend eternity apart from God in Hell) but have everlasting life (a place in Heaven with Father, praising Him-worshipping Him-lovin Him). This one exercise could go on forever...

    D-lite writes on 2002-05-26

    One of my goals has been to create a home environment that offers peace and rest to all who enter. Where someone can come into our home and find a sense of Godís presence. I grew up with seven other siblings, in a home that held no place for peace, stillness, quietness or rest. I remember when I was about 10 years old, I used to go off by myself into a field near our house and lay down flat on the ground amongst the high grass, and then watch the sky and clouds for hours. Or I would go up into the forest on the mountain, and make myself a bed of moss beside a stream and listen to the rushing water and the birds of the forest. ìBe still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.î (Ps 46:10 ).

    In those places of stillness, I could think my own thoughts and feel my own heart. I could cry and pray without having anyone intrude. The memory of those times still serves to strengthen my soul today. Often I go back to those same places (in the mind and spirit) during the hectic times. The times I feel completely helpless, but now I invite my friend Jesus into those places with me. When I was a child, I did not know that I did not know Him. Now I know it was God that led me to those places of peace and stillness to restore my soul. The Word commands us to ìbe still,î but often our fears and anxieties scream too loud for us to hear and obey. It is only in His presence that we, like the wind and the waves can obey the sound of His voice. ìHe got up, rebuked the wind and said to the waves, ëQuiet! Be still!í. Then the wind died down and it was completely calm.î (Mark 4:39 ). ìThere remains, then, a Sabbath-rest for the people of God; for anyone who enters God¥s rest also rests from his own work, just as God did from his.î (Heb 4:9-10 ). May our lives reflect His peace and rest daily.

    seekker writes on 2003-03-17

    I have discovered that when I am still and resting in God¥s Presence, that no matter what is going on around me, His peace that passes all understanding gives me the ability to see things more clearly and accurately. When I am filled with anxiety or stress or worry, then my vision and my thought processess are so busy they crowd out everything else, including anything my Father might be trying to to say to me, or teach me.

    It¥s not an easy process to stop anxious or worrisome thoughts ... I have learned that I cannot do this in my own strength. So, I have learned to acknowledge my inability to not worry or be anxious, and then I ask Him to crucify my anxiousness or worry, and then to fill me with His Wisdom and His Peace. I take the time to enter into His Presence, sit as His feet and rest there ... not talking or asking or prayer, but rather just resting and listening to what He would say to me at that given moment ...

    sue p writes on 2005-11-14

    I know how you felt. The year after I came to Christ I went on 6 short-term mission trips and was praying to go on more or to go full-time. I heard 3 things 1) Wait 2)I will send you, you will not need to go out and get the mission 3) learn about me. I slowed down slightly but I continued to long to leave and worried about when it would be. Then he sent me Psalms 37:7
    "Be still and rest in the Lord; wait for Him and patiently lean yourself upon Him; fret not yourself...... Now my daily prayer is to be still and rest in the Lord.
    Sue P

    Draw near to listen rather than offer sacrifice of fools by Chris Priebe, 2000-08-12

    The Bible has a lot to say about what we say. In fact the word tongue appears 113 times in the NKJV Click here to see it

    The writer of Ecclesiastes gives some very helpful advice when he says "Guard your steps when you go to the house of God. Go near to listen rather than to offer the sacrifice of fools, who do not know that they do wrong." (Ecclesiastes 5:1-3 )

    How much wiser we would be if we spent time listening.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    What are the many ways to listen? A good listener FOCUSES on the one speaking, concentrating until the speaker is finished, thinks about what is being said before interjecting his own thoughts, cares about the one speaking and realizes the importance of a shared moment. How awesome would our lives be if we LISTENED to God this way.

  • Ecclesiastes 5:1-3; - Draw near to listen rather than offer sacrifice of fools

    • We must be careful of staying overly busy by restless_poet, 2001-03-23

    Luke 10:38-42

    " As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord´s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, "Lord, don´t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!"

    "Martha, Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."


    In this passage I am reminded that busy-ness is not always Godliness! Sometimes staying busy can be a way of avoiding our vital intimacy with the Lord, and can ease our conscience about it, by "doing things" for Him. It can actually hinder those much-needed quiet times with Him, and keep us completely blinded to the fact that we´re missing something, because we´re doing so much FOR Him!

    Martha wanted to do so many things for the Lord, but Mary just sat in adoration at His feet and soaked His presence in. If Martha had FIRST sat quietly at Jesus´ feet, she would have found herself refreshed, strengthened, and enabled to work for the Lord in HIS strength, and not her own. Often this is where we mis-step! It is good to work for the Lord, but it must be in harmony with times of rest and adoration and listening. That way, it will be HIS strength and HIS presence working in us, and not something of our flesh. After all, Jesus said we can´t do anything apart from Him... and that´s a very light and joyful burden to bear!

    Edwin writes on 0000-00-00

    You aren¥t kidding. Before i left home for College i was always watching television, adn i thought that this would continue into college; however once i got here, i became just too busy for it. Then i became depressed and tried to kill myself. Without the television i had the time to just sit and figure out life. I never had the ability to read the bible. I couldn¥t just sit there and read those words cause i got so bored. Now knowing that those words are explaining to me what i am supposed to do for teh one that saved me, i read them every chance that i got. Now when i go to my parents condo at the beach, or when i have free time at school, i don¥t turn on the television. In fact if someone else turns it on i go into the other room, or put on my headphones with Christian Music, and read the bible. The bible is so much more interesting cause it applies to my life and it is true. It is not depressing or degrading in any way like the stuff that is on television today. I am only 18 now and i have never felt better... Television may be an escape to life to some, but to me it was a deterrent from the really important things.

    hugapoohlouise writes on 0000-00-00

    I agree. When I get too busy, I can feel myself falling away from God. I have to slow down my life. By either scheduling time to be with God or just stopping what I am doing and praying whole heartedly to God for guidance. It is an easy thing to do. When I left my job to stay at home with my new baby, I thought Oh, I will have all this time to spend with God. Wrong, no matter what you do you still have to make time to spend with God and never take that time for granted.

    deecee4jaycee writes on 0000-00-00

    I work until late at night and so does my spouse..he is a police officer and is often up all hours of the night as well, we sleep later than most people and the day is usually demanding attention when we awake....the phone is ringing, the mail is arriving, no breakfast because lunch needs fixing for the oldest daughter...I insist that the T.V. not be turned on until I have read the Word but, what about my time with you Lord?

    A funny thing happened on the way to my day--
    I discovered a time where the world could not
    sway,
    My resolve to hearken to your voice and to pray,
    My heart screamed in triumph! For I¥ve now found the way...

    There¥s a place that I go to each lovely A.M.--
    And no one can enter this time I give to Him,
    No phones can be found there, no mailmen looking grim,
    I can pray there and worship or sing a great hymn.

    For no one can enter in my prayerful retreat,
    See the water is too hot, hubby can¥t take the heat!
    And all alone in my shower I tenderly greet,
    My creator, my Father, my dear Saviour so sweet.



    This is not meant to make light of prayer time and I do have other times alone...silent times...but, this just came to mind in the context of MAKE time for God! I really do love my shower time though....even though the family gripes that there is no hot water left, especially if I have a lot on my heart!

    taximan writes on 2006-03-20

    This is a subject quite close to my heart because I have been strongly convicted in my heart recently about the importance of doing things from a right motive.

    In 1 Corinthians 13:1-3 we are told in so many words that even if we are doing all the right things, even to the point of giving our all for the sake of others, if it is not rooted in love we gain nothing from our actions. This shook me a little at first because I became unsure of what was actually motivating me a lot of the time. Jeremiah 17:9 confirmed this fear!

    The reason I feel this is relevant to this topic is that I found the answer to my dilemma in a simple statement made in 1 John 4:19 "We love because he first loved us." It became apparent to me that if I was prepared to be still for a while and whole heartedly ask the Holy Spirit to reveal His love for me personally in my heart, this revelation of love would then be the platform for my actions to be built upon.

    Since that time I have felt this truth to be virtually like hearing the Gospel for the first time! Whenever the slightest amount of doubt, turmoil or attack comes into my life, I just drop everything and cry out for this revelation of love in my heart. The amazing thing is that it nearly always comes immediately, and always leaves me bubbling over with confidence and joy that all that I am doing is for the right reasons and from the right motive.

    The important thing though is that it only ever comes when I make the choice to lay down everything else and step back into a position of trust first!


    God bless,

    John.

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